A Guide to Dating as a Single Mom
I’m single! Now what?! We’ve been there.
Whether newly single or alone for some time, it’s never easy to jump back into the dating pool. We have felt all the emotions from terrified to excited. The rollercoaster of feelings is legit and should not be discounted. While we urge you to embrace the unknown, it’s important to discover YOU in the process. Meaning taking the time to care for yourself first.
Here are SAINT’s recommendations for navigating the dating scene as a single mom:
Prioritize Self-Care and Self-Reflection
Take time for yourself to understand your needs and desires.
Reflect on what you're looking for in a relationship, considering how your priorities may have evolved.
Be Open about Your Single Mom Status (own that shit!)
There are some good fish still in the sea - single dad’s usually get it
Be honest about your status as a single mom in your profile to attract individuals who are open to dating someone with children.
Trust Your Instincts
Listen to your gut feelings when interacting with potential partners - if it doesn’t feel good or it’s giving you ex-husband vibes - NEXT!
Don't rush into anything; take the time to find someone who respects and understands your unique situation.
Define Your Priorities
Clearly outline your priorities in a relationship, taking into account your responsibilities as a single mom.
It’s okay to just want to have fun and not explore anything serious.
Understand what qualities and values are important to you in a potential partner.
Embrace Online Dating
Consider using online dating apps or websites to broaden your dating pool - our faves are Feeld for casual and Bumble for dating.
Communication is Key
Clearly communicate your expectations and boundaries early on in the dating process.
Open and honest communication helps build trust and ensures both parties are on the same page.
Balance and Prioritize Time
Find a balance between your responsibilities as a parent and your social life.
Prioritize quality time with your child while also making time for your own personal life.
Be Patient
Understand that finding the right partner may take time.
Be patient and stay true to your values, ensuring that any potential relationship aligns with your long-term goals.
While dating is a part of your life, remember to maintain your independence and self-care, as a happy and balanced parent is more attractive and better equipped for a healthy relationship. Building a strong support network and celebrating your own achievements can also boost your confidence as you explore new relationships. Ultimately, take your time and trust the process as you embark on this new journey.
And most importantly, HAVE FUN!